When my mom had a stroke, I asked my husband, Liam, if I could borrow his car to visit her. His response? “Sure—$65 a day.” I was stunned. I thought we were partners. But in that moment, I realized he saw me as someone renting space in his life—not his wife. I didn’t argue. I just called my best friend, Jess, and asked her for a ride. I kissed our daughter Emma goodbye and left—without saying another word to Liam. At my mom’s house, I helped her settle into her new normal—organizing medications, making meals, booking appointments. I didn’t mention Liam at first. But when my mom saw the pain in my eyes and gently asked what was wrong,
I broke down. I told her everything—how Liam and I split expenses like roommates, but all the real work—raising Emma, keeping the home, caring for everyone—had become mine alone. Mom held my hand and said something I’ll never forget: “Marriage is a team. And sweetheart, you’ve been playing solo for too long.” When I returned three days later, the house was a wreck. Liam looked exhausted. Emma had missed school, the dog had an accident, and he’d even gotten a parking ticket. He admitted, “I don’t know how you do it.”I nodded and handed him an envelope: